Now matching in Los Angeles
Skip the swiping.
Go on the date.
Pick 5–10 women you'd like to meet. A real matchmaker sets up coffee, lunch or drinks with one who wants to meet you too.
$99
per date$0
until it's confirmed48 hrs
typical matchThree steps.
Zero swiping.
No endless chats, no ghosting. You choose who you'd like to meet, and we handle everything else.
01
Pick 5–10 women
Browse verified women in LA. Tap the ones you'd genuinely like to meet. About three minutes.
02
A matchmaker confirms one
We reach out to your picks and confirm a date with one who's interested in you.
03
Show up
We text you the place, time and her first name.
Confirmed
Coffee with Maya
Thu · 10:30 AM
Alfred Coffee, Melrose
Real dates.
Real chemistry.
Your first date, your way
Coffee
Quick, easy, low-pressure.
Lunch
Enough time to really talk.
Drinks
Early evening at a great bar.
- Traditional matchmakers$1,500–$5,000+
- Lunch-date services$1,200–$3,500+
- Dating appsMonths of swiping
- InstaDate$99 per confirmed date
Competitor prices are typical published ranges and vary by package.
Designed so both people feel safe.
ID + selfie check
Every member, before any date.
Public venues only
Busy, hand-picked spots, 9 AM–7 PM.
No numbers shared
Contact details stay private until you meet.
Live check-in
Location sharing for her on date day.
She says yes first
No date is ever set without her OK.
One-strike policy
Our Code of Conduct is enforced.
Questions
When am I charged?+
You add a card when you send your picks, but you pay $0 today. We charge $99 only after your matchmaker confirms your date. No match within 7 days? Nothing is charged.
Who pays for the coffee, lunch or drinks?+
You do, like any first date. The $99 is our matchmaking fee. We pick spots where the bill for two typically runs $15–$80.
Is this a dating service?+
Yes. A matchmaking service for real first dates. Every woman joins because she wants to meet someone, and she says yes before any date is set. Dates are at public venues between 9 AM and 7 PM.
What if she doesn't show up?+
You get a full refund of the $99 plus a free re-match.
Why pick 5–10 women?+
Several picks let your matchmaker find someone who's interested and free fast — usually within 48 hours.
Where is InstaDate available?+
Los Angeles first. Join the waitlist for your city and we'll email you the day we launch there.
Your next first date
is 48 hours away.
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